First place to look when we struggle with accepting others? Can we see the trail clearly? Do we know where we are going,? Where we’ve been? Loving others unconditionally begins with loving ourself unconditionally. We know this. When we have trouble accepting others, could it be that we are still struggling with loving ourselves? Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.