The one thing we have the most control over, yet ignore what would you name the title for the "Movie of your life"? The one thing we have the most control over, yet ignore? We have the capability (and obligation?) to do one thing without anyone’s permission: Make your life your message. Next Blog PS. Would never name my movie “A Cat in Paris”. By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.