Can God Bless Us By Not Giving Us What We Pray For? Common sense tells us that a God who doesn’t answer our prayers can not be a God of Love. Uncommon sense tells us otherwise (a 2-min. interview): Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.