What should be a natural ability usually isn’t Love the quote about crying like a baby because it’s potentially true. Our ability to be self-reflective is our ability to understand that if we don’t do it, no one else will. How freakin’ scary is that? Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.