We are not judging him when this happens, instead we wonder Self love precedes love to others We are not judging him when this happens, instead we wonder. Why not work tirelessly to rid ourselves from the chains that conflict with love? What is more important than love? Prove it. Right? Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.