The vicious circle of deflecting responsibility Nature teaches us to adapt and overcome, and blossom When someone else changes, then things will change for me. But this is never going to happen. The only way to deal with this is to let it go. Letting go may be the hardest, and best, thing we ever learn to do. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.