Understanding paradox will change your life Arrived for audio visual check in this tee-shirt. A subtle form of humility and transparency (and confidence). Who is greater, the one who sits at the table and is served or the one who serves the table? Obviously, the one who sits at the table. Unless, that is, you understand paradox. Next Blog By jeff noel Retired Disney Institute Keynote Speaker and Prolific Blogger. Five daily, differently-themed personal blogs (about life's 5 big choices) on five interconnected sites. View all of jeff noel's posts.